Yesterday, I spent the entire day with the team of designers from Ivory Homes where I work. We drove from one Ivory community to another and spent time going through the model homes and some of the quick move-ins.
It was so much fun! The reason I love being a designer so much is that I am completely obsessed with houses. So spending an entire day looking through them was more play than it was work.
Picture this for me, if you will. Ten interior designers in a model home. Loving every inch of it. And then we get in a joking discussion about how, if we actually lived in the home, we'd ask visitors not to touch anything and to stand in one spot in the great room where none of the beautiful surroundings could possibly be disturbed. The discussion was, of course, all in jest. But it made me think about my own little home.
I love to surround myself with beautiful things. I certainly don't have the same kind of budget allotted to decorating a model home, so my own furnishings and decor are not as fancy...but that doesn't make them any less lovely in their own way. And the crowing touch is the family and friends that fill the space...and they are what ultimately add the most beauty to any space.
As my friend the Nester says "It Doesn't Have to be Perfect to be Beautiful." How true it is.
My Istagram post from yesterday kind of sums it up for me..
"Each morning as I drive my oldest to school, we pass this lovely pasture full of sheep and cows. I am always captivated by this tree which (although it's hard to tell in this iPhone photo) has a broken trunk. Somehow it has survived and is all that much more beautiful because of its brokenness. I can only hope that my survival and brokenness have the same effect on me."
If you don't already follow me on Instagram, I'd love it if you did...don't let this blurry photo make you hesitate - I couldn't size it without losing clarity - Lol!
This isn't easy for me to admit: I can't do everything.
Seems obvious. Shouldn't come as a shock. But it's still hard for me to admit. I have always been a "Type A Overachiever". And when I say that, I'm not exaggerating. Not one little bit. In school, I was a straight A student. I had about 1 gazillion extra curricular activities (give or take a few).
So here I am. Years later. A single mom with my own home. Wait...let me clarify that....an INTERIOR-DESIGNER-single-mom with my own home. That means, of course, that I have grand plans for just about every nook and cranny of this house.
Here's where I've had to learn that I can't do everything. In the past, I would have just made a "to-do" list and started tackling it one item at a time. Now, I work full time as a designer, part-time as a design blogger and 24-hour-a-day-time as a mom. That leaves little time for projects.
So I did the unthinkable (unthinkable to a type-A, DIY, Design blogger anyway). I hired a project done. And I know it won't be the only project that gets accomplished this way. And you know what? That's okay.
Here's a sneak peek of said project...
And I couldn't be happier. And neither could my boys. I took on the painting of said project to save a bit of money...and now I realize that even fitting in painting is challenging with my current schedule. I've been working on it for 5 days now, and I'm not done. Meanwhile, the boys are camping out in the living room. An arrangement that they think is fun. But one that I'm ready to have over with.
Every new phase of life teaches us something about ourselves. In this phase, I've learned that I can do ANYTHING I put my mind to, I just can't do EVERYTHING. There is quite a distinction. And in learning that about myself, I've freed up some of the guilt. It's okay (even as a type-A, DIY, Design Blogging Interior Designer) to ask for help when you need it. And that, my friends, is growth. Learning my limitations has actually expanded my abilities in a way. Who woulda thought?
I'm so embarrassed!! I was thrown off by the holiday weekend, and literally didn't know I had forgotten to post Frugal Friday until I was driving my son to school this morning and realized it's Friday morning! I'm so sorry! But better late than never....here's Frugal Friday (only 12 hours later. sigh.)
For this week's Frugal Round-up, I thought it would be fun to share a bit of fall inspiration.
First up, this very unique Hydrangea and Antler wreath shared by Little Farmstead. Definitely has that Autumn vibe!
I am a Utah Interior Designer and decorating is my passion! Because I am a busy mother to 4 kids, I aim to create spaces that are both beautiful and livable! And I hope to do that without breaking the bank. I have an eye for pretty...and I love sharing my creations with my readers. Join me on the journey of turning a house into a home!